"It's me not you", we've all heard or used this lame excuse during a breakup, but I believe this statement should be used more often. We live in a world where most peoples attitude is the opposite, "It's you not me". We all blame others for the things that go wrong in our lives. It's much easier to blame the masses than it is to take a hard look at yourself.
If you can't keep a friend maybe you're the problem, it is not everyone else. It's easier to think they've got too many issues and they're selfish. That may be true, but turn the mirror on yourself. If at this point in your adult life if you have no attachments there's a problem.
If you can't get past date number one or two, it may not only be the people you're dating. Maybe you want to reevaluate the way you approach others. First impressions are lasting impressions.
Don't blame the cookbook because your dinner sucked, you may just not be gifted with cooking.
Don't blame the store because the dress doesn't fit, maybe it's not the right style for you or maybe some toning is in your/my future.
Bottom line take responsibility for yourself and look inside yourself more often. It's an uncomfortable process but the rewards are beyond satisfying.
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